Day 18 — Tell us about your best friend.
I reeeeaaally despise this question. For me it's simply impossible to nail down just ONE best friend. I've had lots of best friends. I still do! I think it's a good thing, too. I've got an incredible support system, because all of my besties are different. Those that I'm closest to and visit with regularly are my husband, my mom, and my brother. They are probably my closest best friends. My oldest bestie is Heather, she has been a BFF for 15 years. We've lived hundreds of miles away from one another for 7 or 8 years, now. But we've always managed to keep up with one another. My newest is Mikka. She's been a BFF for 6 years but with all we've gone through the relationship has the quality of a friendship 3 times as long.
And then I've got best friends that I just don't keep in touch with like I should. Maybe you could call them once-upon-a-time BFFs. I wouldn't say they are my best friends at the moment, but when we get together, we don't miss a beat. We let our guards down and joys, heartaches, fears, secrets, you name it flow from our mouths.
I would be remiss if I neglected to mention some of my very special cousins. When we get together we behave like long lost best friends, but we share an even deeper level of love. How lovely it is to have built-in besties. Seriously, I don't know what I would do with out them.
So, there it is. I don't have A best friend, I have many. I'm lucky that way. I truly, sincerely, and unconditionally love them all.
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